trishANDwade's escapades

My 1st Baby Shower

2011-08-23T15:14:00.000-04:00

Saturday, my dear sister threw me my 1st baby shower. It was amazing!! She kept the theme a secret from me, and it was perfect!! The theme was "Bedtime Stories" and all of the food and decorations went along with different childrens books.

Green Eggs & Ham

Paddington Bear

The Very Hungry Caterpillar

Winnie the Pooh, complete with honey sticks

Yummy Cupcakes

Baby Girl received so many nice things, and I was overwhelmed with the kindness and genorosity of so many that love my little girl already!

Even the gift table was made to look like a bed, to go with the theme!

And., she has quite a library started already! Let's hope she likes to read as much as her mama does!

Barbie even arranged for all of the guests to design their own page in a scrapbook. She is working on completing this, and I can't wait to see it!

Overall, my sister, my family, and my friends did an AMAZING job showering our little girl with so much love. I can only imagine how much she'll be showered with once she arrives!!

Footwear

2011-08-11T14:04:00.000-04:00

So these are about the only things that fit on my swollen, puffy feet. Don't get me wrong, when my feet aren't swollen, flip-flops are still my go-to choice for footwear. Maybe its the heat, the convenience, the comfort, or a combination of all three. Fortunately, my job doesn't require dressy clothing, so these work just fine, and I can sneak them off under my desk and wiggle my toes. Also, our church is pretty casual, so I can usually get away with these. My dilemma is this: my sweet, awesome sister is driving all the way to Florida from Washington D.C. to throw me my first baby shower this weekend, and I don't know what to wear on my feet!!

I'm wearing a dress, but it's fairly casual, and its a maxi-dress, so its long. Will my flops pass the test for this special occasion? Will people understand that my puffy feet will NOT fit in anything else, anything cutesy and more appropriate? At this point, should it even matter??

I think I will not worry about my shoes. I think I will enjoy my baby shower, getting to spend time with friends and family, and celebrating the upcoming arrival of my baby girl. I'm a Florida girl, the forecast for Saturday is 100 degrees, and flip-flops just fit, no matter the occasion.

My Girl

2011-07-28T14:17:00.000-04:00

We found out we were expecting in February, and realized after calculating our due date, we timed it really well! Baby is due October 18th, which is actually our anniversary. How crazy is that? This pregnancy has hardly been without hiccups thus far, but baby is perfect, and growing just like she ought to be.

Feb.--found out we were expecting...whoo hoo!!
March--miserable sinus infection, visited Primary Doc for antibiotics, where she forced me to go immediately to OB because my BP was high. Ensues panic, OB says everything is fine, and high BP was caused by evil Sudafed. Everything is fine...
3 days later....go to ER, sure that we are losing baby. After 5-6 agonizing hours, Doc says everything looks fine, and to take it easy for a couple of days....whew.
May--severe belly pain for several days; Doc says "umbilical hernia....you need to see a surgeon immediately"; surgeon determines that we should try to wait until baby comes to operate, and just to deal with the pain in the meantime....whew, again. Baby is still fine. Will have surgery to fix hernia 4-5 weeks after baby comes.
Late May--hoping to see a glimpse of baby....should we buy pink or blue?? Not cooperative....this baby takes after Daddy, and is stubborn as can be. We'll wait another 4 weeks....patiently (yeah, right).
June--Baby still won't reveal the "goods"; Doc sends me to Radiology place for better US.....she was NOT shy at all.....yep, it's a girl!!
Daddy doesn't talk to Mommy for 2 whole days....he really wanted a boy, and now he wants to know who is going to help him mow the grass.
July--Daddy is picking out dresses for baby girl to wear, and he makes sure they are all LONG.
Late July--Glucose Tolerance test....passed. Doc calls to say blood sugar was perfect, but "you're anemic". Makes me leave work and go to the store to buy iron supplements (and stool softeners....apparently they go hand-in-hand).
12 more weeks, and we shall finally meet her!

For now, hernia is not too bad, baby girl moves A LOT, except when Daddy wants to feel her, and I'm feeling pretty good (other than being tired). Feels like there's still a lot to get done, but we can't wait to meet our little one!!

girl parts

bigfoot

I see you!

Profile, with Daddy's round head

Ketchup

2011-07-28T13:50:00.000-04:00

Wow. It's been A WHILE. Figured it's time to work on "ketchin' up" on the 'ole blog. In some ways, not much has happened in the last few months, and in other ways, it seems like A LOT has happened. The biggest news, I'm growing a baby girl in my belly!!

Wade and I have stayed busy with work, church stuff, and house-hunting. The house-hunting has been less than successful, but we're not stressed about it. We have no deadline/lease, etc. to be out of our rental place, so at this point, with "baby girl" expected in October, we figure we will probably just wait until the new year to resume the hunt. We'll get settled with our precious girl, and then find our perfect starter home.

I'm going to do my best to get back to blogging, mostly because this is the best way for me to remember things that we've done, places we've been, etc. My "journal" of sorts....stay tuned!

Happy Birthday, Maddie!!

2011-02-20T00:01:00.001-05:00

Just one year ago, I was blessed to see this beautiful little angel, my niece Madigan, enter this world,

And she brings me so much joy!

I love you Ladybug! Happy First Birthday!!

"Can you believe I'm 1 already??"

My Husband Cheated

2011-02-14T12:53:00.000-05:00

We are just about to start the process of purchasing our first home, and with that and some other major changes in our lives, Wade & I decided to "skip" Valentine's Day this year. He recently bought me a charm bracelet that I had been wanting, and we have gone out to eat a few times recently, so we made the decision not to buy gifts, go to a fancy dinner, or really celebrate at all. Last night, he actually sat through an entire chick-flick (the movie Valentine's Day, to be exact) and that was good enough for me!!

Well, he cheated. This morning, not long after arriving at work, an unmarked truck pulled up to my office, and a man walked up and asked for me. I thought to myself, "oh no, what did I do now?" but the nice man smiled and said, "I have some flowers for you". I started thinking "hmm, maybe my mom sent them. That was nice of her." The man went back to his truck and brought me my flowers. They were so pretty!! Wade's note read: "So sue me, forever my love" and I sat bawling at my desk.

What a sweet guy the Lord gave me!

Sanctity of Life

2011-01-24T11:37:00.000-05:00

This past Saturday marked the 38th anniversary of the Supreme Court ruling of Roe v. Wade. This ruling essentially legalized abortion in the United States of America. With this ruling, women throughout the nation were given the "choice" to voluntarily kill their unborn child.

There are many mistakes our nation, as a whole, has made, but this is one of the greatest. Life begins at conception.

My good friend linked to this video on Facebook, and I just had to share it. A beautiful look at the miracle of God's creation, life.

My beautiful cousin, Sara

2011-01-21T10:51:00.001-05:00

Today is "Show us your life--Singles" over at Kelly's Korner! She did this once before and two couples are even engaged after meeting there, so I asked my beatiful cousin, Sara, if she would mind if I included her in the fun!

Meet Sara, 26 years old, Christian, Southern, Amazing, lives in Central Florida.

One of the most genuine, kind-hearted, sweet-spirited people I know.

She LOVES sports, especially football, and she's huge Jaguars and Gators fan (which is hard for me to swallow....I love my Noles :)) She has worked in Sports Marketing before and is someone I would consider a "diehard" when it comes to sports.

Sara loves to travel and see new places. She enjoys relaxing, but she also has a sense of adventure and loves to try new things!

Sara has a puppy named Tripp that is her pride & joy. It's easy to see that they love each other dearly!

Sara is very close to her family, and loves spending time with them.

Sara with her sister Jacqueline.

Sara loves country music, and loves to have a good time. She is SO fun to be around! She loves kids, and has even taught Sunday School. She love Jesus with all her heart, and is just waiting patiently for the Lord to bring her the guy that He has destined for her.

Sara with my niece, Maddie.

She is a dedicated, loyal friend, and I say this about her as a friend, not just her cousin. Any person, guy or girl, would be lucky to know her. An amazing, beautiful person, inside and out!

Shootin' some skeets....

2011-01-18T15:56:00.000-05:00

Saturday, we joined some friends from church to go shooting, and shoot we did! We shot several different shotguns, a couple of different handguns, and my new rifle. We had a blast and can't wait to do it again!

A Social Network Christmas

2010-12-20T13:08:00.001-05:00

I'm sure many of you have already seen this, but I just HAD to post this video. Really good!!

**Don't forget to stop/pause the music player at the bottom of the page, or you won't be able to hear the sound to the video.

Silver Springs

2010-12-16T15:12:00.000-05:00

Over Thanksgiving weekend, after a series of events that were completely unplanned, we decided to spend the day at Silver Springs, in Ocala, Florida. Neither of us had been there since we were kids, and although it was supposed to rain, it turned out to be a beautiful, cool, fall day. The park was not crowded at all, and we had such a great time on the glass-bottom boats, the jeep safari tours, and just walking around looking at all of the animals.

Wade liked that the trees were so big they made him look smaller.

On our way out, Wade just had to stop by the "old-fashioned arcade" and of course, he would choose the "love-ometer" game. He was so proud of his "WILD" rating, and he thought my "NAUGHTY BUT NICE" was appropriate. :)

Overall, we had such a great day together!! We love these kinds of weekends!

Until our next escapade.....

Anniversary Vacation

2010-12-09T11:16:00.002-05:00

For our 2nd anniversary, we both were able to take the whole week off of work and take a little vacation. We thought about cruising again, but were trying to think of something a little less expensive (even though I think a cruise is generally the most-value filled getaway). The parent's of one of my closest friends offered us a condo they own down in Vero Beach for the week, at no cost to us!!! What an amazing blessing!! We were able to cook some meals at the condo, have some time to ourselves, and explore the area.

We visited the Navy Seal Museum. It was really interesting and we probably could've hung there a lot longer than we did, but we had a lunch date.

We also visited the McLarty Treasure Museum, which was really neat.

This tree was out front, and I thought it was so different. It looks like 2 people embracing.

The museum is on the beach, at the precise location of a shipwreck during a hurricane.

No hurricane weather here though....a simply beautiful day...

with this handsome fella all to myself!

Our view from our "free" condo....the backside is on the Indian River Lagoon, and we were able to see amazing sunsets each evening.

And the frontside faces this!! Picture perfect.

We had such a great time, and it was such a blessing to be able to have this vacation without spending a ton of money!

The Past Few Months...

2010-12-08T12:51:00.001-05:00

And why I haven't blogged in a while. In some ways I have so much to say, and in other ways I have nothing to say. The past two and half months have held one of my greatest joys as well as my greatest sorrow. I've contemplated blogging along the way, but oftentimes, I don't feel like I would do well at articulating my feelings. However, for me, this blog is a journal of sorts, of Wade & my adventures, happenings, etc. And this is part of our lives, part of us.

September 19, 2010 - Wade thought I might be pregnant. Decided to take a test. I knew it would be negative. Everytime I think I'm pregnant, it's negative.

It's positive!!! It's faint, but that second line is there!!
Excited, scared, thrilled.
Baby McKenzie is due May 24, 2011.

October 7, 2010 - First prenatal appt.
Everything looks great! Dr. says bloodwork looks great. Ultrasound shows a "fetal pole" but he says that's not uncommon for this early in pregnancy (7weeks, 2 days). Dr, says I can come back in 2 weeks for another US and a chance to see the heartbeat.

October 18, 2010 - Our 2nd Anniversary!
We were able to get away for the week to South Florida, where some friends loaned us their condo on the beach, free of charge. What a blessing! We were able to spend time with some of my closest friend, spend time alone, just the two (three!!) of us, and talked about how much our lives were going to change with Baby's arrival.

October 21, 2010 - Second Appt.
Was so hoping to see my little one's heartbeat, but sadly, my Dr. told me there didn't appear to be one. He wanted bloodwork done to see where my levels were at, and wanted me to see a perinatologist with a better ultrasound machine. He encouraged me not to give up yet, but also told me he did not want to give me false hope.

We were devastated. We spent a week waiting for the appt. with the specialist, although the bloodwork confirmed our worst fears. We would not have a baby. The following Thursday, the specialist did the ultrasound, and showed us that in addition to there being no heartbeat, the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks.

I am one of them, now. One of the women that my heart has always gone out to. One of them that had to say good-bye way too soon. One of them that feels a gaping hole, as if something is missing.

As we've struggled to adjust to the idea that we will not be welcoming our new bundle of joy in May, we rejoice in knowing that God is our strength and our comfort. He has used this experience to bring Wade & I closer to each other, and to bring both us even close to Him. We praise Him still, as He is the same before this happened as He is now. And we still believe all of His promises.

Feeling Nostalgic

2010-09-17T09:13:00.000-04:00

I heard about this neat website on the radio yesterday. It's like a t.v. time machine and lets you pick a date, and then videos of old commercials, t.v. shows, etc. play randommly from that year. I'm having so much fun clicking through different dates, and so many of them bring me right back to my childhood....the good 'ole days. Have fun!

YTTM.tv Time Machine

The Grand Canyon

2010-08-30T10:49:00.002-04:00

Yesterday we decided to take a day trip to the Grand Canyon. Ok ok....it's a little far for a day trip, so we compromised and went to Providence Canyon State Park, also known as "Georgia's Little Grand Canyon".

It took us about 2 1/2 hours to get there, and we couldn't get over some of the hills we encountered on our drive as we got closer....it almost felt like we were actually in the mountains!! My ears even popped a couple of times. The park is near Lumpkin, GA, just South of Columbus. We paid our entrance fee, and started exploring.

Apparently in the early 1800"s. the early settlers' poor farming practices caused erosion to create little ditches. In the 1850's, the ditches were only 3-5 feet deep. They are now up to 150 feet deep....extremely shallow in comparison to the real Grand Canyon, but we'll take what we can get, for a day trip.

There was a trail that you can hike down to the bottom and back up, but it takes a couple of hours, so we decided to save that for next time. Or maybe we'll just wait to ride mules down into the real Grand Canyon. We hit Cracker Barrel for an early dinner on the way home, and overall had an AWESOME day!

Birthdays

2010-08-26T21:48:00.001-04:00

So I got the chance to visit my favorites in South Carolina, and got to be part of the birthday celebrations of two very special kiddos.

On Friday, this cutie patootie turned 6 months old!!

And on Sunday, this special boy turned 3 years old!!

Maddie was helping us set up for Quinn's party on Saturday, but we worked her too hard and she needed a break.

When she finally woke up, she was ready to party!

This handsome fellow was trying SO hard to be patient as he waited for all of his friends to arrive.

Hmm....are they ever going to get here?

Finally, Q's friend Sarah showed up, and Q took her for a ride.

When Christian arrived, he got chauffered around a little also.

Grandma was there to help celebrate!

Quinn is so excited that everyone sings "Happy Dirt-day" to him.

Q's favorite: Lightning McQueen

And since Uncle Wade couldn't come to his party, Quinn wanted to make sure he showed him his motorcycle riding skills. "Look Uncle Wade....no hands!!"

I'm so blessed to get to be "Auntie Trish" these two special kiddos. They fill my heart with so much joy!

Crabbing

2010-08-18T15:22:00.001-04:00

A photo progression of last Saturday's supper of fresh seafood:

As the storm rolled in...

and the sky grew darker...

And as I took photos...

...of said storm...

and dark skies...

The husband was too busy collecting to worry about a lil' old storm....

and as his pile grew & grew....

I jumped in to help a little....

But mostly I just took pictures....

....because it's what I do...

...and then he cooked...

....and then I finally put the camera down....

...because it was time to eat!

Wouldn't want to get fresh blue crab all over my camera, now would I?

Oh yeah, and it was fabulous.

5QF & NFF...and the weekend is FINALLY here!!

2010-07-30T12:10:00.000-04:00

I'm SO SO glad it's finally Friday! I get to see my sis and her family this weekend, as they are visiting Florida for their vacation. Never mind that I have to travel to see them....they are SO worth it!

So here's my weekly Five Question Friday, with Mama M, and New Friend Friday, with The Girl Creative. ENJOY YOUR WEEKEND!!

1. Did you have a favorite blanket or toy as a kid? If so, do you still have it?

I remember several toys/animals that were favorites when I was younger, but the earliest memory I have is of my "Cholly Dolly". She was soft and washable, and had a rattle in her head. I'm pretty sure most every child born in the 70's had one, but mine was extra-special, because she was mine! I still have her, and hope to pass her down one day!

This is not a picture of my actual Cholly....mine is much more "loved", but this is what she looked like.

Looking back, I feel bad for my sister. She had the blue version, which was a boy with a vest. I guess being the "2nd" child, she often got the less desirable optioins. For Christmas one year, we both wanted CD player/boom boxes. We were given identical boom boxes, except mine was brand new in the box, and hers was a used model my dad found at a pawn shop. Totally unfair for her.

2. Do you dream in color?
I'm lucky to ever remember a dream, much less recall if it was in color or not. For some reason, I RARELY remember my dreams. I do remember one dream I had over and over again as a child though. I still remember every detail even though it's been 20 years. Our family was getting out of our car where we had parked along a street/sidewalk somewhere (always seemed like St. Augustine to me). There was a canal that ran parallel along the sidewalk, and a shark jumped out of the canal and landed on the sidewalk. It flopped along chasing us until we finally got away. I know, I'm weird, but it was always so vivid.

3. How tall are you? Do you wish you were shorter or taller?
I'm 5'3 1/4". If you notice, I was sure to include that additional 1/4 inch. I don"t really mind my height though....there are plenty of other things I could find to change, if I had to. Like this stubborn silver strands that keep popping up in my freshly cut & colored 'do.

4. If you could have anyone's (celeb or other) voice as the guide on your GPS, who would it be?
Such an easy question. Mac Powell, from Third Day, and he has to sing to me in between navigating. My husband Wade is fully aware of my infatuation (with Mac's voice, not him, necessarily, although he is an awesome guy) and lucky for me, Wade is a huge Third Day fan as well.

*sigh*

5. Do you return your shopping cart to the corral or leave it wherever in the parking lot?
Most of the time I return it to the corral. Occasionally, particularly if I'm being rushed by a certain significant other waiting in the truck, I will leave it somewhere else, but I'll place it strategically where it will not be in the way for others to utilize the space.

Warning: To come next week, picture overload of two adorable littles that I get to snuggle soon!

The Disturbing Reality

2010-07-23T16:05:00.001-04:00

So with all that's going on with the oil spill in the Gulf, Wade & I have been pretty down about all of it. We wonder if we should spend the money to replace our boat battery....asking ourselves if we'll even get to use it much longer. We discuss taking a day to go fishing down on the island (St. George Island...where we got married) as we've heard that they've seen some effects from the oil. I guess we are still in the "holding our breath" pattern, anxiously waiting to see if our precious coastline will suffer the way so many say it will.

This past Saturday, we took a little day trip over to Destin, FL, just to get away for the day. Destin is one of our favorite spots, as the water there often reminds us of the Caribbean. It's almost always crystal clear/turquoise and amazing. Even though we didn't go over to "go" to the beach, we couldn't help but take a peek.

Coming over the bridge from Destin to Ft. Walton

We did see a little Coastie action, but nothing too concerning.

All looks good, so far...

Following my Prince...

Looking good to me...

And then, we see it...

and reality sets in...

and makes us sad....

and a little mad....

and then sad some more....

And then we leave, wondering if this is as bad as it will get, or are we still awaiting the worst of this horrible mess.

Five Question Friday/New Friend Friday

2010-07-23T10:58:00.000-04:00

So, I've been a slacker lately and haven't blogged in weeks. Here's my attempt at picking up where I left off.

I'm participating in Mama M's Five Question Friday again, and I welcome any new blog friends from The Girl Creative's New Friend Friday. Thanks for stopping by!

1. What were your school colors?

Elementary: Blue (Go Dragons!)

Middle School: Red & Blue (Go Spartans!)

High School: Teal, Black, & Silver (Go Sharks!)

College: GARNET & GOLD (GO SEMINOLES!!)

2. What's the best compliment you ever received?
A couple of weeks ago, I was asking my sister how my BIL's job interview went, and she was telling me about some of the questions they asked that he didn't expect to be asked. The interviewer asked my BIL who is role model is, and he said it was his mom (so sweet!!). I asked my sister who her role model was, and she said it was me. I thought she was joking and being silly, but when she convinced me that she was serious I started crying (I was driving in rush hour traffic, too). I am so humbled, honored, and not AT ALL worthy of that, and there are so many better people that she could choose as a role model, yet she chose me. The BEST compliment ever.

3. Do you buy cheap or expensive toilet paper?
This question made me laugh. Before I got married, I ALWAYS bought Kleenex Cottonelle. Growing up in a household that frequently was "out" of TP, I promised myself once I was on my own that a.) I would NEVER run out of TP, and b.) I would have the good stuff.

Then I got married. We still don't buy the "cheap" stuff, but apparently Angelsoft is best for septic tanks. At first, I was devastated and I thought my husband was just telling me the septic tank line to get his way with what TP he liked. I researched it and found out that, in fact, Angelsoft is best for septic tanks. So, that's what we use....until we move!! Then it's back to the best for my bottom. HA!

4. Have you ever had a surprise party thrown for you? Or have you had one for someone else?
Yes, and it was fun. However, I'd much rather throw someone else a party. You see, I don't really like being the center of attention (AT ALL) and it's bad enough when it's a party in your honor that you know about, but when it's a surprise and you stand there with a dumb look on your face and ALL THOSE PEOPLE STARING AT YOU??! Not a fan.

5. What is one material possession that you "can't live without"?
Hmm....probably a phone (or at least some way to communicate with those I love.) And then there are the days when I'm ready to throw it out the window and become Amish. And when it comes down to it, I could live without it if I had to, but I really wouldn't want to.

Have a wonderful weekend!

This is where I live....

2010-07-02T11:53:00.001-04:00

I'm so proud.

http://www.wctv.tv/home/headlines/97581354.html

Moment of Silence for Cohen

2010-07-01T09:22:00.000-04:00

Remembering Cohen...read his story here.

Wordless Wednesday

2010-06-30T06:00:00.004-04:00

My niece, Madigan Ruth

Finally Friday!!

2010-06-25T10:13:00.000-04:00

This has been one LONG week, and I'm so glad it's finally Friday!

I'm participating in Mama M's Five Question Friday again, and I welcome any new blog friends from The Girl Creative's New Friend Friday. Thanks for stopping by!

1. Do you know how to play a musical instrument? Does an iPod count?? I own a guitar, and I can play about 3 chords on it. I wish I could play it more than that, and I could probably do it if I just put the time and effort into it. I "played" the clarinet in middle school, and I use "played" loosely. I played enough to get by, and I think I enjoyed the idea of being in the marching band more than actually playing the clarinet, so once I realized that my "faking it" would probably be revealed before too much longer, I decided to spare my reputation and quit.

2. What is your pet peeve while driving? Just one?? People that cut me off, people that tailgate me, people that don't pay attention, people that drive too slow, people whose brake lights are burnt out, etc. Ok, I don't really enjoy driving all that much, at least where other people are on the road. I do it because I have to.

3. Would you rather have a housekeeper or unlimited spa services? Spa service, hands down. I don't really mind housekeeping, but it sure would be nice to get a massage any time I wanted!

4. Is there a song that you hear that will take you back to the moment, like a junior high or high school dance? Not any song in particular (because anyone that knows me knows I'm horrible at knowing who sings what song, even if I can sing every word to it) but when I hear certain 80's songs, all I think about is Skate City. There are certain songs that take me back to couple skates, the races, and shoot-the-duck roller skating within the first few notes of the song.

5. What song best represents your life right now? This one has stumped me. I'll have to get back to this one.

Five Question Friday

2010-06-11T11:18:00.000-04:00

I'm participating in Mama M's Five Question Friday again, and I welcome any new blog friends from The Girl Creative's New Friend Friday. Glad you've decided to visit!

1. What do you think makes a good friend, or friendship?
I think the sign of a good friend is someone that you can completely be yourself with, without fear of being judged. Someone that regardless of how silly, crumby, selfish, honest, & raw you are with them, they still love you at the end of the day.

2. What is the last thing you bought & later regretted?
I'm not much of a impulse shopper, so my purchases are usually well-thought out and mulled over before I ever let go of the cash. Rarely do I regret buying something...this is not to say I don't often "return" when I change my mind, usually about clothes. I would much rather go home and try on clothes than stand in line for dressing room.

3. Have you ever had a prank played on you?
Yes. A few years ago, some friends of mine "forked" me. I woke up and walked outside to go to work, only to find HUNDREDS of white plastic forks stuck in the grass of my front yard! Then, as I walked to my truck, I also noticed they shoe-polished white forks all over the windows. Since I had to leave for work, I didn't have time to wash the shoe polish off, and all day I was afraid the "fork" would be mistaken for the pitchfork gang symbol of the Gangster Disciples, and feared for my life (for "misrepresenting" the gang) for the remainder of the day. Don't ask me how I know gang symbols. Long story.

4. What is your favorite theme park?
Umm....The Holy Land Experience, Orlando, Florida. Just kidding...I've never even been there, but I was there when the same property was called Splendid China. Ok, my favorite theme park is probably Disney World: The Magic Kingdom. Growing up an hour away, I've been so many times that I lost count, but it is still "magical" to me. I love the familiarity of the rides and park. Now that I'm older, I find it a little more challenging to put up with the crowds and long lines, but it still the most "magical place on earth."

5. Have you ever seen someone else give birth?
Yes, twice. My sister gave me the honor to be present for the birth of both my nephew Quinn and my niece Madigan. Talk about magical! The greatest miracle ever...new life!

Have a nice weekend!

Five Question Friday

2010-06-04T11:07:00.000-04:00

I'm participating in Mama M's Five Question Friday again, and I welcome any new blog friends from The Girl Creative's New Friend Friday. Glad you've decided to visit!

1. If you could go back to college would you change your major? Or, if you were to go to college right now...what major would you choose? If I got to go back, I would probably either do nursing or radiology. But I would have to take some photography classes, too. Oh, to do it all over again would be wonderful!

2. What do you love most about your home? Well, since we are looking at buying a house and moving in the somewhat near future, there are only a few things I love about the current one. Mostly, I love the supercheap rent (wish we could get a mortgage payment like that!!) and I love the privacy. I'm praying that our new place would have at least as much privacy as we have now.

3. What types of books do you like to read (if you like to read at all)? I love to read!!! Depends on my mood what type I like to read, but anything from novels to biographies, theology, classics, etc. One of my favorite books of all time: Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers.

4. What is the grossest thing you've ever eaten? Hmm...a mussel. I'm not even sure why I did it. I'm just now starting to really enjoy seafood, and this mussel incident was several years ago. I don't remember if it was a dare or what, but I do know it was at a chinese buffet (should have been my first clue) and it was disgusting. Like snot. Never again.

5. If you HAD to be a character on a TV show, whom would you be? Oh my...this is a tough one. Can it be an older show? I'm thinking I would like to be Caroline Ingalls on Little House on the Prairie. I mean, who wouldn't want strapping Charles Ingalls as a husband?

Well, there you have it. Happy Friday.

SYTYCD

2010-06-04T10:08:00.000-04:00

Last night, I happened to catch part of Fox's So You Think You Can Dance on TV, and though I haven't watched it in a couple of seasons, one particular audition was absolutely stunning. I just wanted to share Bryan Gaynor's amazing audition to Owl City's song "Fireflies". I loved this song before, and now I love it even more. Remember to turn off the music player at the bottom before starting the video.

Happy Memorial Day

2010-05-31T08:26:00.000-04:00

I received this in an email yesterday. This photo has not been doctored or edited in any way and was taken with 35mm film. I thought it was amazing how you can see the cross lit up.

I am so thankful for all of the men and women who have sacrificed their lives to serve our country and to protect our freedom. Freedom is NOT free. Praying today for all the families and friends of those who have proudly served the United States of America.

God Bless America!

No Potato Famine Around Here

2010-05-30T18:14:00.000-04:00

In our spring garden this year, Wade decided to give potatoes a try. We had never grown potatoes before so we weren't sure how they would do. The plants seemed to be doing well, but we had no idea what was going on "underground", where the real magic happens. Friday, Wade decided it was time to see.

We were so impressed with how many potatoes we grew!

The happy farmer with his harvest.

We also were able to pick some squash, zucchini, cucumbers, jalapenos, and chili peppers.

We have more that will be ready soon, including lots of tomatoes and more peppers!

I'm SO glad my husband likes to garden...if it were up to me, we would probably starve. Let's just say my thumb is NOT green. I do love fresh veggies though. Now, to cook them. :)

Five Question Friday

2010-05-28T12:28:00.002-04:00

This week, I'm participating in a blog hop, hosted by Mama M.

1. Is there something you've always wanted to try but just can't muster up the courage to actually do yet? Riding a motorcycle. I tried before, but I was too scared to lift up my feet. For now, I'll just stick to riding on the back with Wade, but eventually I want to try again.

2. If you had $100 handed to you in cash without your significant other knowing about it, what would you spend it on?

Probably spend it on him. I know that's lame, but honestly that's probably what I would do. If I were forced to spend it on me, I'd put in in my new camera fund.

3. What was your favorite piece of playground equipment as a child?Monkey bars!! I loved climbing. And hanging upside down. Wish I could still climb like I use to! I also loved the slide, but metal slides in the Florida sun never really made for a good combination. Ouch!

4. Do you prefer a sweet or hearty breakfast?

Definitely hearty...eating sweets too early (other than chocolate milk, of course) always makes me feel kind of yucky for a while.

5. Are you a Neat Freak or a Messy Bessy?

More neat freak, although I can get a little slack sometimes. I definitely prefer neat and organized to messy and chaotic though.

Check back next Friday for more questions!

The New Kid

2010-05-28T11:11:00.000-04:00

My father-in-law, whom I love dearly, has goats. Lots of goats. Yesterday he sent me a message telling me that Sweet Pea had her baby yesterday morning, so last night Wade & I went down to check it out.

Sweet Pea makes cute kids, doesn't she?

Happy Birthday, YouTube!

2010-05-17T15:34:00.001-04:00

YouTube posted its first video five years ago today, so in honor of the 5th birthday, I'm going to post 5 of my all-time favorite YouTube videos. And trust me, picking just five is tough for me!

A couple of these are repost's for me, but they still make me laugh everytime. Don't forget to pause the music player at the bottom. Enjoy!

David After Dentist

Single Ladies Devastation

Blood

Scarlett Takes a Tumble

Atlanta Grape Lady

And the last two, because who can resist laughing when someone falls (and yes, I know it's not very nice!)

Laughter...good medicine.

Maddie's Photo Session

2010-05-04T13:44:00.000-04:00

Once we returned from the Ken-ducky Derby, Q was wiped out and went down for nap, but Little Miss was wide awake and alert, and told me she wanted some photos done. I agreed to do them, and next thing I know, girl has stripped off all of her little clothes (that are all too big because she's so skinny)! We proceeded to have a little photo shoot, and as much as we tried to get that little smile, Little Miss was going for the serious look. Here is a sampling of what we got.

Maybe I'm biased, but I think she's perfect.

Reedy River Ken-ducky Derby

2010-05-03T16:46:00.000-04:00

While in Greenville, SC this past weekend, our plans for Saturday included a visit to the downtown market where we bought some boiled peanuts, chowchow, and some yummy barbecue sauce. They sell all kinds of locally-grown produce, soaps, candles, cupcakes, and other little knickknacks. We walked around there for a little bit, and then left to get a delicious lunch at MoJo's Famous Burgers before returning downtown for more festivities.

Each year, the Rotary Club of Greenville hosts a fundraising event called the Reedy River Duck Derby, where they release (12,000 this year) yellow rubber duckies donning sunglasses into the river and over the falls. The ducks are all numbered and "adopted" and the winning ducks at the end of the race can win all kinds of prizes. It was pretty neat to watch, but not long after it began, I realized just how many ducks are 12,000, and just how many obstacles prevent many from even making it across the finish line. I also quickly realized that we would probably not win the year's worth of free groceries or the $1500. Despite that, we had a great time, and Quinn, although he did not understand why we weren't bringing bread to feed the duckies, thoroughly enjoyed "calling the ducks" with his whistle.

*note the battle scar from his other new trick, to be revealed in a later post

Giving Uncle Wade a thumbs-up before the race begins....I think they were conspiring their ducks winning strategies.

And, FINALLY, letting us know the race was about to begin!

*sorry it's blurry...he moves fast, that little one does

And the race begins!

The leaders approach the first rapid...

And the fight for the lead begins!

Rub-a-dub-dub

Although the shades make a nice touch, the sunshine was lacking for the day.

So I don't think our Quack Pack actually won any prizes, but we had fun, and who wouldn't with 12,000 rubber duckies?

Quinn Rides a Bicycle

2010-05-03T16:33:00.006-04:00

Quinn was so excited to show us how he rides his bicycle. Before Wade & I got there, he was telling Barbie that he wanted to show us how he rides his bicycle and falls down and hurts his elbow. She suggested he show how he does it without falling down. He did. He was amazing. Now, if he would just face which way he's going instead of watching us to make sure we are watching him.

To see the boy in action, make sure to pause the music player at the bottom before watching.

My Two Favorite Littles

2010-05-03T15:41:00.000-04:00

This weekend we got to go visit my sister and her family for a very quick trip. No matter how quick and how short these visits are, they are precious to me and I truly treasure this time spent with them. Quinn is getting so big...

....and Maddie is not. She is a little skinny-minny and just as pretty as can be.

We had so much fun together! I'll post more later on all the fun we had, complete with a "dirt-day party"!

Wade's Birthday Weekend Recap

2010-04-22T14:18:00.000-04:00

We had a wonderful weekend down at St. George Island. The weather cooperated beautifully, but the fishing left much to be desired. I think we only came home with 8 keepers. We did, however, hook EVERY. SINGLE. STINKIN'. catfish is the entire Gulf of Mexico, as well as the Apalachicola Bay. We relaxed, fished, walked, ate, read (me, definitely NOT Wade), took lots of pictures (again, me, not Wade), and relaxed some more. Wade found well over 100 whole sand dollars, more than we've ever seen before. It's too bad we can't pay the bills with them! Our bed was awful so we didn't sleep very well. The peacocks at the "resort" seemed to enjoy being on the roof over our room, and it seems to be mating season for them. Despite all the little "flaws", it was so nice to get away for the weekend and just be together. Overall, I think Wade would consider his birthday weekend a SUCCESS. Until next year...

Happy Birthday, Wade!

2010-04-17T04:00:00.001-04:00

My husband is turning 34 years old today!! We are celebrating by doing one of his favorite things....fishing at St. George Island.

(picture taken 2 years ago)

Baby, I hope this year is your most amazing yet and I pray this year overflows with blessings from the Lord! I love you so much!!

3 hours was enough...

2010-04-02T16:35:00.000-04:00

One of my favorites, John Piper, answers the question of how one man's suffering become the suffering of millions.

He was enough. His glorious sacrifice was enough to cover the sins of the entire world.
My Jesus conquered death and became the curse to reverse the curse. I live because He died for me.

And the best....

is yet to come.

Spring has sprung

2010-03-23T12:49:00.000-04:00

Well, it appears that Spring has arrived here in little 'ole Tallahassee. Aside from a little thunderstorm activity on Sunday, this weekend was absolutely perfect, and all the signs point to a new season.

Our azaleas began blooming seemingly overnight Friday, just in time for the official start.

The yard-salers were out in full force Saturday morning, and yes, I was one of them.
The Bradford Pear trees all over town look amazing, with their tiny little white flowers.

Easter dresses have taken over the little girl sections of Kohl's and Wal-Mart.
And finally, on Saturday, I spent a while watching three brand-new lizards explore our porch. Watching them brought me back to the fond childhood memories of my sisters pet lizards, Larry & Maggie. Larry & Maggie were married and although they were "not domesticated", that never stopped Barbie from talking to them, catching them, and wearing them on her ears.

All of these signs of new life. I love the signs of new life.

Madigan Ruth Halaby

2010-02-26T16:12:00.000-05:00

She's here! My precious niece is finally here. After a quick and painful labor, Maddie arrived Saturday, February 20th, at 1:44 p.m., absolutely perfect. I'm so thankful that my sister allowed me to be a part of the special moment, and I wouldn't trade it for the world. And as big brother Quinn says about baby Maddie, "it's so cute!!" in the most high-pitched squeal ever, she really is adorable.

Here is the beautiful 8 lb. 1 oz., 21 in. long baby girl.

WARNING: PICTURE OVERLOAD!!!

Our first glimpse. The doctor said he needed to start charging by the pound.

Me & my girl, for the first time...

Perfection.

Beautiful mama & baby girl.

Proud Grammy & big brother

Maddie's first bath. She was mad.

Big brother Quinn holding baby Maddie.

So sweet.

All dressed up...ready to go home.

What an angel!

Sleepy girl.

Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

I love my Valentine

2010-02-15T15:45:00.000-05:00

Never much a fan of Saint Valentines Day, I didn't expect much, nor did I desire much, for the holiday this year. I got Wade a card, and I expected he would probably get me the same. I expected the card to make me cry, which it did, and I expected that to be the extent of our celebration of the "day of love."

My husband outdid himself. Now, we are trying hard to not spend extra money on frivolous things, so we had decided we weren't going to go out somewhere nice to eat. It was probably crowded everywhere anyway. Wade told me he was going to cook for me, but wasn't going to tell me what he was fixing. Well, after church he gave me a hint: surf & turf. Ok, I can deal with that.

Our menu: Sauteed scallops, grilled Mahi Mahi, and ribeye steaks, complete with sides and wine. A little Third Day playing in the background. Dinner was amazing. He did so good! Everything was delicious and cooked to perfection. I wish I had taken pictures, but we were hungry and it smelled so good! I'm so thankful for my Valentine! I think he really loves me.

As good as Wade treated me yesterday, I have to admit that he is not my first love. He knows this. I told Wade long before I even knew that I loved him, that there was another man in my life, and that he would always have to take second place. You see, I'm blessed to have two Valentines. Jesus Christ, lover of my soul, is my Valentine. This holiday is supposed to represent love, and there is none who represents love greater than He does. He didn't cook me supper, didn't buy me a card that made me cry, didn't give me roses or candy or jewelry. He gave so much more. He laid down His life for me. He chose death to give me life. The Father loved me enough, even with all of my unloveliness, to give up His own child. The only reason I have the capability of loving Wade, or anyone else for that matter, the way that I do, is because He first loved me. What an overwhelming thought!

We love because He first loved us. 1 John 4:19 (NIV)

I love my Valentine.

Seriously?

2010-02-11T21:33:00.000-05:00

Tomorrow's forecast.

Whatever happened to global warming?

Mr. Robertson, God still loves you

2010-01-14T23:00:00.001-05:00

Upon hearing Pat Robertson's absurd comments concerrning the situation in Haiti, my first reaction was that of anger. After simmering for a little bit, and praying about my anger/frustration, I knew that this was probably not the most appropriate response for someone who is trying to share the love of Christ (I'm speaking of me, not Pat Robertson). Since I'm not the best writer, and struggle sometimes to convey my thoughts, I decided I would share a link to one of my favorite authors, Don Miller and his response to Pat Robertson's recent comments. Well said, Mr. Miller, and Mr. Robertson, even in your ignorant, hurtful statements, God still loves you.

Praying for Haiti

2010-01-14T13:33:00.001-05:00

My heart is so broken for the people of Haiti. As I continue to hear reports and updates on the magnitude of the damage & loss of life, the utter destruction is overwhelming. I'm donating to Compassion International. Consider donating to them to aid the people of Haiti, or donate to one of many other organizations committed to bringing relief to this country in great need.

Biloxi Bound

2010-01-08T13:21:00.001-05:00

Mike & Shirley (Wade's parents) have been wanting to take us to Biloxi, MS for a while now. I've never been, and Wade hasn't been in several years. Since Mike & Shirley are regulars, they always get free rooms and coupons for free food, so they are hooking us up this weekend! They got us a room at the Isle of Capri, and they are driving so we don't have to pay for gas. I'm not much on gambling, but I may try my hand at the slots (with a VERY small limit). It will be nice just to get away for the night, and see somewhere new. Now, for finding ALL of my warm clothes....the high in Biloxi tomorrow is supposed to be 34 degrees. Maybe we should go somewhere warm.

How Many Kings...

2009-12-21T16:56:00.001-05:00

I just recently heard this song for the first time (even though it's been out for over 3 years), and I literally had to pull over on the side of the road to truly absorb the meaning of these lyrics. Once again, I am in awe of my GOD, who would do all this for me....

(turn off the playlist player at the bottom before playing the video)

Lyrics to How Many Kings by Downhere

Follow the star to a place unexpected

Would you believe, after all we've projected,

A child in a manger?

Lowly and small, the weakest of all

Unlikeliest hero, wrapped in his mother's shawl -

Just a child -

Is this who we've waited for? 'cause...

How many kings step down from their thrones?

How many lords have abandoned their homes?

How many greats have become the least for me?

And how many gods have poured out their hearts

To romance a world that is torn all apart

How many fathers gave up their sons for me?

Bringing our gifts for the newborn Savior

All that we have, whether costly or meek

Because we believe.

Gold for his honor, and frankincense for his pleasure

And myrrh for the cross he will suffer

Do you believe?

Is this who we've waited for?

All for me...

All for you...

Our kids

2009-12-16T21:05:00.000-05:00

In a previous post, I mentioned that I wanted to sponsor a child through Compassion International. It was something that I had been wanting to do for a while, and I just never did.

Well, I did. We did it. Wade decided he wanted to sponsor a child also, so together we picked out 2 children. He picked a girl (what a surprise...he told me "i'm a girl kinda guy") so I chose a little boy.

Meet Elizabeth, age 10, from the Phillipines.

And meet Ralph, age 5, also from the Phillipines.

Aren't they beautiful? They are not siblings. In fact, they are not even part of the same Compassion program in the Phillipines. What they do have in common is a need. Beyond the physical needs they have of food, clean water, medical care, & shelter they have a greater need. They need to hear about Jesus. They need to know that they matter to God. They need a friend and they need to know that someone loves them and is praying for them. Wade & I are those "someone's". We have already began praying for Elizabeth & Ralph. We can't wait to send them letters & cards encouraging them, loving on them, and giving them hope.

My First Photo Shoot

2009-12-09T14:39:00.000-05:00

While my sister and her family were here visiting, they asked me if I would take some family pictures of them. Of course, I said yes, and I was so excited! I knew I would be limited with my little point & shoot camera, but I was willing to see what I could pull off. Despite some nasty cold & wet weather, we were able to get in a short little session. Here are some of my favorites:

I have to say, it helps make good pictures when the subjects are so good looking. My sister is beautiful, my nephew is precious, my brother-in-law is handsome, and I just KNOW my niece is gorgeous, even if I can't see her yet! I'm so blessed to have them in my life!

Halaby's Go To Tallahassee

2009-12-08T20:31:00.001-05:00

My sister calls her blog Halaby's Go Upstate, but this weekend, then left the upstate of South Carolina and came all the way to Tallahassee....just to see me!! I finally got to talk to Maddie (my niece, in utero), got some major kisses and QT with Quinn, and some fun laughs and talks with Barbie & Jalal. This weekend was a total blast, and even nasty, wet, cold weather couldn't bring us down! It may have changed our plans slightly, but we adapted.

Quinn decided to sing along with Daddy & Uncle Wade's intense Guitar Hero game.

Quinn got to help Uncle Wade collect eggs and feed the chickens.

He LOVED sitting on Uncle Wade's motorcycle.

However, the experience was not complete until he had on his sunglasses.

Q got a little playground time...

And even got to visit the dinosaurs at the local museum.

Can you tell who the star of the show was this past weekend? I can't help it...I love taking this handsome boy's picture! (Stay tuned for some nice family shots of him with his beautiful mama & handsome daddy.) This weekend was so much fun for all of us. I can't wait until the next time we're all together.

Thankfulness

2009-11-26T11:44:00.001-05:00

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, here are just some of the things I'm so very thankful for:

-my husband
-my family
-my friends
-my church
-my job
-my freedom
-my salvation
-my GOD, who supplies ALL my needs

Happy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for?

Compassion...

2009-11-19T12:09:00.003-05:00

I think God is teaching me something. Scratch that. I know God is teaching me something. It seems lately that I keep hearing the same or similar message, from all different avenues. I could chalk it up to coincidence, but I know better than that, and frankly, I know God better than that.

I write this humbly, but I feel like I've always had a heart for people. Ever since I gave my life to Christ, I feel like I look at other people differently. I know...that's kind of how it's supposed to work, and don't get me wrong, I still get it wrong A LOT. I'm far from ridding "me" & "I" from my vocabulary, and my own selfish desires still often get the best of me. On the other hand, I try my best to look at people and see them as Christ sees them: broken, hurting, lost, etc. Lately, all around me I keep hearing about how we are supposed to love others. And I start questioning myself. Am I loving others to the extent that Christ loves me? How do I know that I am? How do I show that I am? Recently, this quote struck a chord so deep within me, and really convicted me in regards my compassion for people.

"I cannot be everything to everyone, but I can be something to someone. Compassion without action changes nothing." -Unknown

We (the church) are so good at being sad, sympathetic, and somber towards unfortunate situations and circumstances others find themselves in. We think to ourselves "how awful" or "that's so sad" and may even shed a tear or two when we see images of poverty, disease, and brokenness. What do most of us do beyond that? What do we do with those feelings of sadness and heartache? Nothing. I am guilty. I do nothing. Oftentimes, those images, thoughts, and stories even stick in my mind for days, weeks even. And still, I do nothing with them. Maybe I throw up a casual "why God, why the hurting?" and without waiting for a response, move on. Maybe I even remember to ask for God to provide, protect, heal, save, etc. those unknown souls. But beyond that, I do nothing.

I'm tired of doing nothing. I'm tired of Christians (me included!) claiming to love others with the love of Christ, when in actuality, we struggle in even loving other Christians, much less, the "unloveable." Is it that we aren't heartbroken "enough" to act? Are we too busy with our own lives that we fail to see how others are living? Is it because so much suffering and sadness occurs on the other side of the world, that we don't feel a responsibility to do anything? There are plenty of opportunities to "be Jesus" right in front of our very eyes, if we choose to look.

I want to be filled with compassion...the kind that acts. Not because it feels good. Not because it makes me look good. Because we are commanded to. I want Christ to use me to share His love with someone else. Someone who doesn't feel loved. Someone lonely. Sad. Scared. Hungry. Sick. Lost. Angry. I want them to see Jesus, and to know that He died for them as much as He died for me. They were on His mind that day He hung on that cross.

I can't change the whole world. I am going to change someone's world.

Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked. "They know nothing, they understand nothing. They walk about in darkness; all the foundations of the earth are shaken. Psalm 82:3-5 NIV

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. James 1:27 NIV

If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, "Love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing right. James 2:8 NIV

Practical application:

Some of my goals for the next year, to "be Jesus" to the world:
1. Volunteer at A Women's Pregnancy Center, a local pregnancy center offering abortion alternatives and faith-based support for women who feel like they have no where else to turn. This is something I've been talking about and thinking about for a while now, and I've gone as far as printing out the application. No further. Now, I'm moving forward with this.

2. Sponsor a Compassion International child: Something else I've been wanting to do for a while. This organization does SO MANY great things and gives so many children around the world opportunities and hope that they wouldn't otherwise have. The small monthly fee involved with sponsoring a child provides them with medical care and food, education, friendship, Bible teaching, and most of all....hope.

3. Be a part of a short-term missions trip: After going to Ecuador in 2000, this has been something I've always wanted to do again. This trip changed me in such a meaningful way. I went expecting to be a part of doing all these great things and being a blessing to the people we were ministering to. Instead, I was constantly blessed by the heart of these people, who had practically nothing, but sacrificed all they had to serve us.

I am going to change someone's world. I am going to show them Jesus.

Worst Church Sign Ever

2009-11-13T15:48:00.001-05:00

I drive past this church everyday on my way to and from work. They have recently been getting more and more clever with the slogans they're putting on their sign. This one takes the cake. The absolute WORST slogan on a church sign I have ever seen....right here in good 'ole Tallahassee.

Wow. I have no words.

LONG Overdue Cruise Review

2009-11-09T21:01:00.001-05:00

I know this is WAY WAY past overdue, and I had every intention of posting our cruise review shortly after we returned. Time got away from me...and now here it is, 2 weeks later.

Overall, our vacation was FANTASTIC. It was so nice to get away and not think about anything back home. We had very few worries, rested, relaxed, and did our best to enjoy ourselves to the fullest extent.

The one disappointment to the cruise was how the weather affected our ports of call. We were scheduled to be in port at Coco Cay, which is the cruise line's private island, on Tuesday. This is the port we were both looking most forward to, as this was going to be our "beach day". We had every intention of finding hammocks or beach chairs, and sitting back to "chill" for the majority of the day. Wade even planned on getting in the water for a little bit, which is a miracle in and of itself! Unfortunately, while anchored a few hundred yards off the coast of the island, the winds were too strong for the tender boats to safely retrieve passengers off the ship. They tried and tried to get to us, but the wind was just too strong. The captain announced the bad news, and said we would just proceed to our second port of call, Nassau, Bahamas.

We arrived in Nassau an evening early than previously planned, but that was also the formal night for dinner, and Wade & I dressed up and wanted to try to get some good pictures. We also had no desire to venture into Nassau after dark. We did get off the ship the next morning, did a little shopping and site-seeing, and did a lot of walking. We enjoyed our time in Nassau, but we both agreed we would have rather missed that port than Coco Cay.

The following day, the captain was going to attempt to get us back to Coco Cay on the way back, but he received word that the winds were even worse than before. Sadly, we would head back and take our time getting back to Port Canaveral.

Even with this major disappointment, we still thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. Our servers were all great, the food was amazing, the entertainment was enjoyable, and being together was the best. We played trivia a few times, played Bingo, attended the art auctions, and played Sudoku. I actually won 1st place in the Sudoku challenge! Wade was so proud of me. :)

Although I didn't take nearly as many pictures as I thought I would, I did get a few shots to prove that we actually went! They are mostly of Wade, who doesn't really like having his picture taken, but who else am I going to take pictures of?

Our towel animals, one of my favorite parts:

Wade, all dressed up, looking hot!!

Wade, in front of our ship:

One of our few successful self-portraits (it was hard with all the wind!):

A palm tree with coconuts (Wade had never seen coconuts):

Of course, we would never leave a location without first visiting the Harley store:

And a few other views of Nassau from the ship in port:

Anniversary cruise vacation: A+...and already planning the next one!

Saturday Morning Treasures

2009-11-09T12:35:00.002-05:00

This past weekend, Wade had to work so I was left without my usual garage saling partner. My good friend Evelyn decided to join me, despite the wretched hour of dawn I like to get started (Evelyn is NOT a morning person). She was a trooper! We had a great time...it was so good to get to spend some time together. Our deal-finding started off kind of slow, but after a little while, we started to come across some treasures. Ev found a few books, a sweater, and a few precious baby girl outfits. Here are my finds for the weekend:

1. Books: a complete set of Nature's Wild animal books (16 total) for Quinn, a hardback copy of The Polar Express, again for Quinn, a brand-spankin' new copy of The 5 Love Languages, for Wade & I to read together, and a nice Best-Ever Cake Decorating book, for me, of course.

2. Toys: 5 Harley Davidson's for Wade (the biggest kid) to add to his collection, 3 brand new Hot Wheels, for Q for Christmas, & a Giraffe beanie baby w/tag, sticker sets, and bouncy balls, all for my Operation Christmas Child box.

3. Scrapbooking supplies: extra pages, page covers, stickers, & glue spots (all of this for $2.00!)

4. Maddie clothes & shoes, of course: Here are just a few of my favorites. Note: the tiny pink crocs.

5. And last, because my sister and brother in law LOVE camoflauge, for some reason:

And how do you possibly make camo girly??

Why, just add some ruffles and a bow, of course.

I-HEART Revolution

2009-11-04T11:32:00.001-05:00

I'm so looking forward to seeing this tonight.

This is real. Lord, open my eyes to see what You see. Give me Your heart.

Where is my Fall?

2009-10-28T12:53:00.000-04:00

Dear Tallahassee,

You are a nice, little city. I'm proud to have called you home for nearly 12 years now, and although you have changed and grown quite a bit over that time, I'm still relatively happy with you. However, there is something we need to discuss.

I think you are confused. You see, the month of October is nearly over. We have only 3 days left, and then we will be into November. Most of the rest of this hemisphere has transitioned to the Fall season. You know...cooler weather, less stifling humidity, less muggy rain, better hair days. Sweater weather...you do remember that from last year, right? Well, I think you may be a bit confused, my dear little hometown, because you are still giving me daily high temperatures of 86 degrees. You are still kindly providing me with "warm & muggy" as the forecast. Oh yes, and thanks for the inch of rain we recieved yesterday (with no temperature change). My hair remains "poofy". And nice Mr. Weatherman's advice? "Get used to it". Thanks.

So, dear old Tally, could you help a girl out? Could you give us some relief here in the Capital? I would like to NOT wear a tank top & shorts to a hayride, please.

I will be eagerly awaiting your reply...SOON.

Sincerely,

Anxious for Autumn

Soon setting sail...

2009-10-19T00:01:00.002-04:00

Today we set sail for the Bahamas! We are both SO READY for some serious R&R. Here's to 1 Year, baby! Sun, sand, surf....here come the McKenzie's. I hope you're ready!

Just picture us on this...

On our way here...

And possibly here...

To do this...

And maybe this...

And have this...

Maybe even one of these...

And MOST DEFINITELY some of this...

See ya when we return (IF we choose to return)...

We made it! 1 year...

2009-10-18T00:01:00.002-04:00

1 year ago today, Wade & I were preparing to stand before one another and pledge our lives to each other in the act of marriage. The day had finally arrived, and there we stood...the perfect weather (minus the wind!), at a perfect beach, before a perfect God, made our perfect day. This past year has been anything but easy, but amidst the challenges, struggles, frustrations, fears, and tears, I still look at my groom, my husband, and I can honestly say that I am more in love with him today, one year later, than I was that perfect October day. God is stretching us, transforming us, and making us stronger, both individually and as a couple, and I can't wait for the next year, and the next, and the next. Not because of us, but because we laid it all at His feet 1 year ago today. And we will continue...

Happy 1st Anniversary, Wade! I love you so much!

Well, I guess I'm a Redneck

2009-10-14T15:28:00.000-04:00

I got this in an email from my father-in-law, and thought to myself, another list of "creative" transportation modes, communal living, and hairstyles. Once I opened it and began reading, I quickly decided that I must, too, be a redneck.

You might be a redneck if: It never occurred to you to be offended by the phrase, 'One nation, under God.'

You might be a redneck if: You've never protested about seeing the 10 Commandments posted in public places.

You might be a redneck if: You still say 'Christmas' instead of 'Winter Festival.'

You might be a redneck if: You bow your head when someone prays.

You might be a redneck if: You stand and place your hand over your heart when they play the National Anthem.

You might be a redneck if: You treat our Armed Forces veterans with great respect, and always have.

You might be a redneck if: You've never burned an American flag, nor intend to.

You might be a redneck if: You know what you believe and you aren't afraid to say so, no matter who is listening.

You might be a redneck if: You respect your elders and (will) raise your kids to do the same.

You might be a redneck if: You'd give your last dollar to a friend.

So, just maybe I am a bit of Redneck...

Seminole Tears

2009-10-12T10:56:00.018-04:00

I love college football. I love that I understand the game. I love that although there are rumored "perks" for the players, for the most part, they are not paid to play the game. They play because they love it. And I love my Seminoles. I love hearing the marching band play the fight song. I love seeing 80,000 fans all doing the Seminole Chop together.

I love hearing Gene Deckerhoff announce the game on the radio. I think the colors Garnet & Gold are lovely together. I love being amidst other hardcore fans, cheering on Bobby & the boys alongside me.

I love watching Chief Osceola ride out on his horse Renegade to throw the flaming spear, just before a home game starts.

But....

Lately, it's been hard to be Seminole. So hard that it hurts. Now I know that all teams have their "seasons" and I also know that football is not all that important in the grand scheme of things. It sure is fun to have something/someone to cheer on...to be a part of something grand. To say we are having a rough season is a bit of an understatement. I said the other night after watching the game "sometimes my heart can't take Seminole football". I get so involved in the game! At this point in the season, our record is 2-4. Two wins. Four losses. Ouch. Our boys try hard. They just can't seem to get ALL of the pieces together at the same time.

Have I mentioned that sometimes it's hard to be Seminole (especially when you are married to a Florida Gator fan...what? I didn't mention that?)? This is on the front of our truck.

Needless to say, our season has left us with much to be desired. There's always next year, right? We may not have the same quarterback, defensive line, or wide recievers as we did just 10 years ago, in our "glory days", but we have the same coach,

the same stadium,

and the same spirit of unity...

So, as hard as it is sometimes....I bleed Garnet & Gold. I.am.a.SEMINOLE.

Maddie's New Wardrobe: A Preview

2009-10-03T22:02:00.012-04:00

So after the long-awaited news on the gender of my sister's second little one, due in February, I FINALLY got to go shopping! For dresses, at that! My neice, Madigan Ruth, will be well outfitted by the time she arrives, thanks to her favorite Auntie.

This weekend, a couple of local ladies organized the One Week Boutique. It happens twice a year and is HUGE. Needless to say, this was my first stop after work on Friday. I behaved myself, put many adorable things back, and left with a dress, 2 little tops, and a pair of shoes for Maddie.

Today, our real adventure began. Although Wade & I go yard-saling just about every weekend, rarely do we have days as good as today! One county over from us was hosting a county-wide yard sale, all along Hwy. 98 (the coastal highway). We got up early, as usual, and were ready to go before anyone was even set up! Wade hit the jackpot, with all kinds of treasures he just can't live without. Did you know you can NEVER have too many fishing rods? Or chainsaws? His favorite find for the day was a bird (house) mansion for the front yard. He's already set it up and he can't wait for the purple martins to start nesting after winter. I didn't take a picture of Wade's birdhouse...I'll have to add one later.

I found a few little things, but I'm not even going to mention them. As you can see by the title of this blog post, my goal today was baby girl clothes...and I hit the jackpot! Beautiful dresses, beautiful dresses with matching bloomers, adorable outfits, even a swimsuit....I LOVE SHOPPING FOR BABIES, and especially baby girls! All in all I spent $5.00 today on clothes/shoes, seen here...

and my tuck & run find for the day, for only $2.00, a nearly new Hooter Hider nursing cover.

Barbie is so excited, and I'm sure Maddie will be pleased, as well.

And last, the only other reason I enjoy getting up early...beautiful sunrises. This was ours this morning.

Tomorrow's Destination

2009-10-02T21:58:00.003-04:00

I can't wait!! It's a COUNTY WIDE yard sale....all along the coastal highway. I hope we find lots of great things!

Church Music

2009-09-24T14:55:00.001-04:00

My long-awaited copy of David Crowder* Band's new album, Church Music, is finally in my hands and flowing into my ears. Well worth the wait, the album is chock-full of tunes rich with amazingly fresh sound and incredible lyrics, although I expect nothing less from Crowder. I can't stop listening, and I can't even pick out a favorite song yet!

Here are the lyrics to "Shadows"

Life is full of light and shadow
O the joy and O the sorrow
O the sorrow

And yet will He bring
Dark to light
And yet will He bring
Day from night

When shadows fall on us
We will not fear
We will remember

When darkness falls on us
We will not fear
We will remember

When all seems lost
When we're thrown and we're tossed
We remember the cost
We rest in Him
Shadow of the cross
DC*B

Deeper Still

2009-09-23T12:19:00.004-04:00

This past weekend, I had the opportunity to attend the Deeper Still Conference, put on by LifeWay Bookstores. One word: AMAZING. Beth Moore, Priscilla Shirer, and Kay Arthur...all in one place! This conference was a much needed "refreshing encouragement" for me, and I learned so much from these awesome ladies. Kay taught on "the REST of faith", teaching from Hebrews and how important it is, especially in these times, to be grounded in the Word of God. Priscilla spoke on God's greatness and how He sees and is able to do "beyond beyond" what we need or ask for, Ephesians 3:20-21. And last, Beth wrapped it all up with "spiritual discernment" and not being "punked" by the works of the enemy. I can't wait for the next time I get to soak up more of these women's teachings, and in the meantime, I will continue going "Deeper Still" with Jesus.

Make sure to scroll to the bottom to pause the music on the playlist if you want to watch the video.

Deeper Still - Orlando from Rich Kalonick on Vimeo.

Saturday Morning Treasures

2009-09-12T13:16:00.008-04:00

We've been back at it the last couple of weeks, but I haven't blogged about my treasure hunting because nothing has really been that great. Today though, we had a pretty good day! And for Wade especially, finding good deals means having more fun. We had fun.

We started at a huge neighborhood sale that has been advertised for a "ritzy" neighborhood here in town. It's a neighborhood that was developed much like Celebration, owned by Disney, in Central Florida. Pricey homes, picture perfect yards, and their own "town square". Needless to say, we thought maybe we would find some deals. Everything was so overpriced!! And NO ONE was willing to deal, so rather than wasting more time there, we headed on without purchasing anything.

We moved on to some of our favorite neighborhoods for yard-saling and had a great time!

I've been needing some new lamps, sinced Wade broke one of ours in the living room recently (broke, as in shattered, into LOTS of little pieces). At an estate sale, I found these cute lamps with the shades, and they look practically brand new! They wanted $5 a piece, but I didn't want to pay that much. I walked away with my new lamps, both for $6!

I'm also working on collecting black frames of various sizes so I can do a photo wall like Raechel at Finding My Feet. I found these! The one larger frame, with a white matte and glass, was $1. The other two square frames are actually mirrors, and they came 4 to the set for only $2. I thought it would be neat to arrange some of the mirror ones mixed in with photographs.

I've also been looking for small, stick style vacuum, but they are SO expensive in the stores. I came across this little "broom vac" from Dirt Devil. It looks almost new, very clean, and had a price tag of $10. Wade asked them if they would take less, and they took $5!! Yay!

I added 2 new bears to my Cherished Teddy collection, and one adorable glass snowman on skates to my snowman collection. 50 cents each!

And last, my favorite. Just yesterday, something reminded me of Super Mario Brothers, and I thought about how fun it would be to play that video game again. Well, after we left the ritzy neighborhood and headed to "Old Faithful", our first stop had a box with a Nintendo Entertainment Center!! Old school! Complete with Super Mario Brothers, Duck Hunt, and Tetris. All for $2! I'll take it. Thank you.

We did have a few other things that we found, but it started raining while I was taking my pictures. Wade found another Igloo cooler (because you can never have too many, right?) and a few other things. Overall, we both voted today a success. Can't wait till next time!

Look Who's Two!!

2009-08-22T12:19:00.002-04:00

Q is two! My wheel-of-fortune lovin', twinkle singin', phone talkin', "muppin"-handed nephew Quinn is TWO YEARS OLD today! It's hard to believe that this little chunky monkey...

has grown into this amazingly handsome, incredibly intelligient, insanely adorable little man so quickly.

I love our talks on the phone and our time spent together, even though it's not nearly as often as I would like. Buddy, I hope you know how very much I love you!

Happy Birthday, Quinn!

One year...

2009-08-21T10:59:00.002-04:00

...since I said good-bye. I thought it would get easier, but it hasn't. Maybe it will. I wonder how long it takes for it to get easier. One year, but it seems like just yesterday. August 21st will be a day I'll never forget, but not for reasons we like to remember dates. Birthdays, anniversaries, special events, big plans. Those are dates that we remember with ease, with smiles. The other ones we don't forget, marking the end of life, at least here on this earth, are stained with tears. Tears, not for what he lost, but selfish tears, for what I lost, what I miss. Tears of relief, because he suffers no more. Tears of jealousy, because he is celebrating and I am hurting and sad. Tears of joy because so much of him is in who I am.

I miss my dad so much! I think about him all the time, and remember his funny, quirky ways. I am so thankful for the years we had with him, for the memories we made, and for the people he touched. And through my sadness, I rejoice, for he is celebrating with the King for eternity!

I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. John 11:25-26

See ya soon, Dad!!

Spontaneous St. George

2009-08-16T16:36:00.003-04:00

Yesterday evening, Wade & I were eating some seafood at a place on the coast that we like, about 20 minutes from home. It was still early, and we decided to head down to St. George Island for a little while. We got down there, it was beautiful (of course) and we just walked for a while. There was hardly anyone on the beach, so it was nice and quiet. I took A TON of pictures. We met a couple that was visiting the island for the first time and became fast friends with the two of them. Overall, a successful evening!

Photo and video editing at www.OneTrueMedia.com

The Most Amazing Sister

2009-08-15T06:36:00.002-04:00

Beautiful. Strong. Inspiring. Faithful. Understanding. Funny. Caring. Smart. Sacrificial. Tender. Witty. Brave. Patient. Friendly. Sexy. Hard-working. Compassionate. Sensitive. Supportive. Courageous. Gracious. Genuine. Encouraging. Honest. Generous. Intelligient. Considerate. Kind-hearted. Humble. Silly. Giving. Selfless. Candid. Diligent. Adventurous. Gifted. Admirable. Trustworthy. Sincere. Wife. Mother. Daughter. Granddaughter. Niece. Aunt. Sister-in-law. Sister.

My sister, who also happens to be my best friend, turns 29 years old today and boy, does she look good for her age!

We've been together from the beginning. Well, almost. I got a 14mth head start, but who's counting?

One of my all time favorites...

The beach...

We've seen the Olympic torch together...actually, we've seen the Olympics together!

Boston...

And even, Italy...

Her Wedding Day...

and my Wedding Day...

I wouldn't be who I am today without my sister. She is an incredible women, and I consider myself blessed to call her not only sister, but friend.

Happy Birthday, Barbie!! I love you!!

Lord, I thank you for my sister and the blessing she is to everyone who comes in contact with her. I pray that this year would be overflowing with blessings from You. I pray that You would touch her in a special way this coming year. I pray that her marriage and children would be blessed. I pray a hedge of protection around her and her family. Thank You for who You are in her life. Amen.

Head over to her blog, Halabys Go Upstate, and wish her a Happy Birthday!

Pensacola/Destin

2009-08-12T20:42:00.009-04:00

This weekend, we decided to get out of town and wanted to go over to Pensacola. The National Museum of Naval Aviation is there on the Navy base, and it's been said to be comparable to the Air & Space Museum in D.C. The museum was great! Lots of neat old planes to look at, cool exhibits from the different wars, and an extensive collection of military uniforms/patches from all different eras. We also watched 2 different IMAX movies. We had a good time, and it kept us in from all the rain from the weekend. We didn't get to take the trolley tour to see the other planes outside because the trolley was broken, so we'll have to do that next time.

Here's Wade in front of one of his favorite planes.

There's also a cemetery with markers of thousands of servicemen/women. It was humbling to read all the of markers, with men & women having served in all branches of the military, and from World War II up through the Persian Gulf. I'm so thankful for the brave men & women that have fought for the freedom of our country.

On Sunday, we headed to Destin, one of our favorite beaches. The water there is ALWAYS so clear and blue. There was a nasty looking storm cloud looming over us, but we did stop long enough to get a good look at the water. Even overcast, the water is amazing.

My man.

The scary cloud.

Hopefully, next time we get to go for a weekend, the sun will be shining and we can enjoy it a little longer!

Our babies are growing up...

2009-08-01T22:09:00.010-04:00

Do you see what these are? Any guesses?

Yes, those are eggs. Not just ordinary eggs though. These DID NOT come from the grocery store. Our girls are finally laying eggs!! We have 4 so far! I knew it wouldn't be long, since our male of the house (not Wade!) has been cock-a-doodle-dooing ALL. THE. TIME. I thought they were only supposed to crow when the sun comes up, but either that's a fib or our boy is an overachiever. He crows all day long. It was cute the first couple of days as he was "learning" and "practicing". Now, he's about got it down.

Here's a couple of our little egg producers and their "stud":

Hard to believe that just 6 months ago, this is what our babies looked like:

I guess we can't call them our babies anymore...

Saturday Morning Treasures

2009-08-01T21:50:00.008-04:00

Got a late start this morning...we didn't leave the house until about 7:15. The last few weeks we haven't been finding good deals until later in the morning anyway, so this wasn't a big deal. Not a great day, but not awful either.
Here are a few of my finds:

Fun little never burned candles in different types of glasses (a mini martini glass, wine glass, etc.). All 6 for $1.00

A little "knit kit" with instructions on all different knitting projects. This is one of those things on my "to learn" list. It even has needles in it!

And my favorite for the day: The clear apothecary glass was only 50 cents, and the awesome amber-colored canister was only $1! I love them! I haven't decided what to do with them yet, but I'm sure I'll come up with something.

I also found a couple of books for 25 cents each, and hubby found several treasures of his own.

I also wanted to share my favorite finds from a couple of weeks ago.

2 Fireking bowls (1 in green & 1 in blue) and a vintage Pyrex dish in "flamingo pink". I love them!

Well, those are my treasures! We may skip next week, but who knows. I can't wait until next time!

Mad skills...

2009-07-29T15:07:00.001-04:00

Wish I could ride a bike like this guy can. This video is well worth the time...pretty amazing.

Weekend in Review

2009-07-27T21:39:00.009-04:00

My mom's birthday was this past Friday, and back a couple of months ago, she told me she wanted to go to Disney World. (Yes, she is grown...55 years old, as a matter of fact.) My wonderful husband gave me permission to go, so Mom & I decided to make a weekend of it. We got a SWEET room for $39 a night, thanks to my bro-in-law J.

Friday, we stood in line for 40 minutes to ride Dumbo. I'm dead serious. That's what she wanted. That's what we did. Yes, I'm still talking about my 55 year old mother. We also rode Splash Mountain, Big Thunder Mountain, Pirates of the Caribbean, and of course, the thrilling Indy Cars. Talk about exciting!! Now, I've always been a big fan of the Magic Kingdom, but I have to admit that this past weekend pretty much took care of me & MK for a while. I was ready to go by 7 p.m. and we left at 11. I know, I know...what a party pooper. Mom got her way...we stayed until it was ALL over!

The next morning we ventured to SeaWorld's new water park, Aquatica. Wow. SO. MANY. PEOPLE. It was insane. The park was pretty cool. Way better than Wet n' Wild. But did I mention that there was a lot of people there? Didn't ride all the rides, but the Lazy River & Wave Pool definitely got my vote. And the little dolphins that look like Shamu are pretty cool. Well done, SeaWorld. Other than being way too crowded and all.

Saturday night, we decided to go out for a nice dinner. I've heard about this place before but never been, so we decided to go for it. A. MA. ZING. Texas de Brazil is my new favorite, and the nice thing about it, you don't have to eat again for a week! Totally worth the money.
And look what else God gave Mom for her birthday.

So, I think Mom had a great birthday weekend, and I had a pretty good time myself, and it wasn't even my birthday!

Blog Relocation

2009-07-22T16:06:00.000-04:00

re⋅lo⋅cate /riˈloʊkeɪt, ˌriloʊˈkeɪt/ [ree-loh-keyt, ree-loh-keyt] -cat⋅ed, -cat⋅ing.
–verb (used with object) 1. to move (a building, company, etc.) to a different location: plans to relocate the firm to Houston.

–verb (used without object) 2. to change one's residence or place of business; move: Next year we may relocate to Denver.

Origin:
1825–35, Americanism; re- + locate

Related forms:

re⋅lo⋅ca⋅tion, noun

Just in case the title was confusing for anyone. I've decided to move my Blog to Blogger. I've used Wordpress for a little while, and although I've been on a "blog hiatus" for a couple of months, I'm thinking that Blogger is more up my alley. For past blogs about our uber-exciting lives, I'll leave up the old blog for a while at trishandwade.wordpress.com

Until next time...